I know what I need to do: GAL and implement LRT tactics.
However, she wants absolutely minimal contact with me, I guess because I have made it so hard over the last few months begging for a chance and to understand her reasons for doing this.
I just struggle to see how any LRT tactics can work when there is no contact and she has just blocked this whole thing out like its not happening.
She had so many people at this wedding asking about us and what's going on - she wouldn't talk to anyone about it, and is completely hiding from the fact that this is happening and will not discuss it with anyone or I don't think she would even contemplate the thought of coming back. In her mind its gone too far and we can't go back now.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011