Originally Posted By: grr
but if i am in this for the long haul, i guess i must begin rebuilding our friendship.


Only if it is comfortable for you.

Only if there is trust.

Only if it is coming both ways.

Grr this is not a R at any cost.

The biggest cost I am concerned about is you.

You feel "yucky"?

Why?

And

If it is because of H. His actions, words, or any other thing...

Then examine why you are subjecting yourself to it.

Your M?

Two way street.

When it is then put yourself in it.

Is that where he is right now?

Is that where you are?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am