Bolero is cool, and perhaps ML is too large a step at this point but how about some real foreplay?
I suspect, this is actually easier to do than you would ever imagine. Give her a little something to work with and I think, she will help you move forward.
Try just a little bit. The minimal amount of any kind of sexual/physical/foreplay type action you can muster the courage for and see what happens.
The time has never been more right for manly action and a leap of faith.
CL
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."