Need to get back on the forum. Here's an overview of what is happening with old IW. In the middle of june we got an offer on our house. we countered and they accepted. However, the accepted offer is 3000 less than what we owe on the house and the realtor takes 5%. Nice huh! We are not set to close until aug 31st. Haven't heard our banks final word on what will become of the remaining balance yet. The W and I talk a few times a week. She initiates 90% of the phone calls or texts. She did come over a couple of weeks ago and we went through the basement and divided it up. Was so strange, we reminisced about a bunch of good times while doing it and had some good laughs.
My W had our D2 on the fourth but I could pick her up at 5 at her mom's. Her mom was having a get together when I got there. I parked on the street and saw. OM's truck parked out there. I got a huge pit in my stomach. I walked up the drive. OM was sitting on the porch. When he saw me he immediately headed into the house. I got D2 from my W and abruptly left. Just wanted to get as far away from this living hell as possible. Took D2 to the lake and then home. What a horrible end to my day.
The next friday D2 and I were leaving for our long weekend in cali with an old AF buddy and his family. My W dropped off D2 by me early that morning. I could see how much it hurt her to leave our D2. When she left, she couldn't look at me bc she was breaking down. We landed in cali and went straight to disney. This was something I wasn't sure about doing bc when my M was good, W and I always talked about taking her there together. In fact on father's day I, I told my W that I would be taking D2 to disney. I could tell she hadn't even thought about it bc she stopped in her tracks and got very silent. She finally made a comment about how we both were going to have to miss things.
Alright here's something else that has been going on. My cali buddy and his W know about my M sitch. On memorial day weekend I received a random text from his sister. Apparently his W and her were having a few cocktails and began talking about me. His sister is recently divorced. I texted back and we began to talk. Funny thing is my friends W was trying to help me put my M back together until she saw the pics my W had posted on fb of her and OM and comments she was making. So now she wanted to hook me up.
Sissy and me began texting regularly and one night finally called each other. It really felt good to talk to someone that knew how I was feeling and we hit it off. I will also admit that sissy is very attractive.
She is a teacher with a lot of time off in the summer. So she comes to her brother's place and helps take care of their 3 kids in the summer. The weekend I was there, she was also staying there. Well you can guess the rest. I did sleep with her while I was there. She is not the first woman I have been with either. I was with a girl at the end of april and two others between then and sissy. All have been one nighters.
I continue to talk to sissy quite a bit. Also she is coming out for the labor day weekend. I do have feelings for this girl, but I still am only in love with my wife. I don't see my W and OM's relationship showing any signs of slowing down.
I recently have rented a duplex in town and will begin to move my things next week. I am ready to be out of this house. Funny thing is, my W, who couldn't wait to be out of her mom's place, said she is going to stay living there for awhile. Wants to catch up on some bills before she moves out. She hasn't even brought up Divorce since mother's day, even now that the house has sold. Maybe it is just supposed to be implied. Idk! One thing that really threw me, the night she came to divide up our things, she asked if we could take D2 to the county fair together. I have D2 that weekend, I doubt she would have asked if she had her. I said that it would be fine with me. When the fair comes in two weeks, we'll see if she brings it up again. I'm not going too
