It was a gradual thing with a co-worker. Looking back we both were feeling more distant from our spouses. Not appreciated, the same thing for me only in reverse. I don't know what she wants yet. I'm not sure that she totally does, but I would guess she's leaning to D. She did ask me to go away with her and the kids for a few days, saying it doesn't mean anything. But lots of poison after counselor. I get it, I understand it. I'm a complete moron.