Hi Cam, I'm sure you are in terrible pain right now. Thry to go easy on yourself. It takes 2 people to make or break things in a relationship. My situation is similar, but I haven't posted it yet, still trying to make sense of it after my wife left.
Just imagine how you would feel right now if you and your wife had a couple of small kids running around and she took off.
Read other people's stories here and it will help you. I know it's helping me and I am inspired by the people who are fighting for their Ms here.
Just try not to beat yourself up right now and try to take care of yourself a day, and sometimes a minute at a time. When you feel completely down and hopeless, try to take a cold (not cool, but cold) shower. A friend of mine recommended it and it helps a little.
