LL, As much as I hate to admit it to myself nad others, I am really almost at the end of my rope with my H. It's been over two yrs and he does not begin to give me what I need. He cheated on me for over two yrs before I found out. He does not like to talk about it. When they really wake up, they are willing to do just about anything it seems. When and if my H does it may well be too late. Rachael