In addition to others Cadet has posted I have read and recommend these as well:

" How to Improve your Marriage Without Talking About It"
" Hold Me Tight"
" Love and Respect"

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M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.