It does sound like it's hopeless a bit. I am trying to strengthen myself, but I just see her as someone who is so stubborn and set in her way that she just continues to block it out and move forward. She has such an ability to ignore things to protect herself and she doesn't communicate and just blocks it, so I feel it is going to be so hard to ever get her to see changes in me.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011