Wife no longer in love with me

[cam]

I am in no state mentally or emotionally to even think about this

See cam, this is what I want to protect you from.

You say you want to show her "I've changed!"

But the truth is, you will show her "I'm scared!"

Get your *crap* together.

Step 1.

So does that mean I should start working with her on the settlement process and show that I am 'not scared' by helping her get what she wants - ie to settle and then remove herself from my life? I'm confused??