I DB'd 2 years agao when my wife had an affair and wanted to seperate. It worked... Now of course I have had an affair. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Obviously we had issues we did not resolve. But I can't believe I did this terrible thing. So now I am trying to DB from the other side of the coin. What an idiot I am. We've been married 13 years and have 3 wonderful kids. They are a mess, as I move into an apartment. I'm having difficulty doing 180's because I feel so guilty, but I know I need to get past that. We are seeing a marriage counselor who seems very good. I just hope my W wil stay longer than teh 3 sewssions we signed up for.
