When D14 found W crying at 5am one morning D14 asked what the matter was, W replied "everything, everyone is making me out to be the bad guy"
Now W has said she has been thinking, and yep, thinking of the negatives about me and sharing it with others to try and make her look better in justifying what she has done
this is what i had too, with her friends the stories were of abuse and neglect etc, with mutual friends it was something different, with those who knew me well it was something else.
but all of it was to make her look like the helpless, guiltless victim who requires pity, and who did everything in her power to save it, but in the end couldn't continue for her safety and the future safety of our D.
in hindsight, this is who she is in all aspects of her life. nothing that went wrong in her jobs was ever her fault. she changed jobs constantly. everyone else was to blame for everything. unfortunately i had ignored that going into the marriage.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
