"Sorry about the fight. I know r r trying really hard, I see it everyday. I love u a lot and just want to keep moving forward without getting derailed. goodnight!"
Umm we are moving forward? here I thought we wee in limbo land. Derails us?
He said, she said, we said, they said...
She tells you the above...a (from my point of view) message that is not only an apology but a dam good sign. That she DOES see your effort.
But your pouting?
You guys had a fight, not a good one either lots of nasty; and SHE is the one to pull back from the edge, to offer the olive branch. She validates, and tones it down.
New ways to communicate. Maybe she has always done this? But I'm not sure, what I see is an example of trying to keep the lines open.
De-rail, she said it at least twice, unless these are your words not hers. Important words to her. She is worried, because she does like the changes in your dynamic. She doesn't want to fail either.
She sees movement, you see none? (Limbo)None? Look back then to see distance. It's a question of PACE. The convoy moves as fast as the slowest ship.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
