Let me add:

How to improve your marriage without talking about it - Love and Stosny - I really like this book when it comes to explaining the dynamic on why many men say "I am a failure".

Love and Respect - Eggerich - makes sense to me, a lot of time we forget to respect our mates when we get too comfortable.

The Love Dare - although many say it is pursuing, it opened up my heart to what unconditional love really means. I did not follow the dares, only those that were not too pursuing, (I am reserving them for later, when - note that I did not put if - my H has his change of heart. It is very Christian in its approach, and I would say it brought me a lot closer to God.

Wish I had the time to read more books! They really do help.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go