Psych,

I do not mean to offend in my ignorance of Aspergers...

It also kept me from posting, although you're in very good hands with Kaffe.

I am more of an indirect poster. I don't want to tell a person what to do, I'd rather get a person to think. To see outside the box. I like asking questions in order to do this. Questions, hopefully designed to look at yourself.

I don't know if I'm going to be helpful or hurtful to you though.

But I also do not want to think I abandoned you either.


The confidence thing.

I totally lost mine when all of this happened to me as well.

I found that by starting small, doing little things to get my confidence back help alot. Smile at a pretty woman, and get on in return. Build something or fix something, a little bit more. Small steps to regaining the confidence in myself.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet