OK LL you have tried everything. Doesn't it say in DB that even if it doesn't work then at least you know you have tried. And you have sorted yourself out in the processs.

I think Shiny's point is right on the button BTW.

Now if you would like to stick around a few more years till the kiddos are in school then maybe you just hunker down and get on with it. Look at it like a job and just do it. (after all he pays the bills right?) I feel like I am in a very similar sitch to you but maybe for different reasons. I am definitely like you in that whoever I was when I married my H isn't who I am now. This Fran isn't so sure she wants to be married to the guy the other Fran picked out.

I don't want to hijack your thread with my own story, if you can be bothered then here it is.

take care

Fran


if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong