Okay, LL HERE IT IS!!!

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I think it is more the fact that I stopped being pissy and needing to get away...when he first came home there would be some days when I just didn't want to be here...couldn't "act as if" so I'd take off and go to a movie or something by myself...I think h has just gotten too comfortable here again.





LL....I think a ways back I posted to you...why not dump the kids on the couch and say I'm outta here for a few hours...

It seems you have a precedent for such or similar behaviour and, ahem, your H took a lot more notice of you and your needs at that time!!!

Time for you start doing this again LL. It seems with your H, actions speak louder than words.

Shiny