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the fact that it's pretty damn clear that he doesn't have to do a damn thing and I'll still be there.



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Exactly the problem. You are too willing and able to meet his needs, etc... Men like a challenge. Give him one. What could you do to add mystery and intrigue into your M?

I was talking to a friend of mine today. She told me how her 20 yr. sister was dating a great guy, but that she told him she needed a break over the xmas break. She says boyfriend is always at her beck and call. One day her BoyF did not respond when she text messaged him. She thought, hmmm?? She waited and then she actually drove to his place. He arrived when she got there and went into a long explanation about where he had been, how he forgot to log off comp., asked if she was worried....

She was turned off by that. She said she wished he had just said, "I was out." See the mystery?


Thanks for responding on my thread. So would you let a "casual date" move back in with you?
nik