I'm starting to think that you DO actually have to MAKE EVERY EFFORT to have the "talk" with your W... whatever it takes, just get it out there and have the talk with her...
Because it is apparent that you really need to do that...
No need to beat around the bush with her. Figure out when you can meet and talk...
I strongly suspect it won't go too well, but I could be wrong... only having that conversation with her will tell...
And if it goes great, fantastic...
and if it goes south... well... then you will fully understand what it's like to have the R talk and have it go south...
Couldn't agree more KD.......
Lonely, I am not sure that you are comprehending what we are saying to you.
You acknowledge it in one post and then in the next you are disecting a few text exchanges with her that very clearly did not go well.
YOU are obsessing........
You are loosing YOU.......quickly.
Re-read your thread up until now.........
Does it sound sane?????
If so, go ahead......set up the meeting and if she resists, press her hard.......you must do this.......you must make it worse.
Let us know how it goes.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
