Here is what snooping does to you, it becomes an addiction of sorts.
You start looking and you don't find something, so you keep looking and looking, you confront her with phone numbers from her phone you don't recognize, you start grilling her. You look crazed. Onve you start thinking she is having one? It doesn't matter if she is or not, because you think so. And either she is lying and breaking your heart or she is being honest and breaking your heart.
Is she having an affair?
Maybe, maybe not.
A marriage can thrive after an affair. Affairs do not mean the end of a marriage. It takes alot of strength on your part though.
So is she? Isn't she?
Screw those questions right now, the real question is can you handle it?
If she moves out? You still have options, they are just different.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
