W messaged me at 1:30am to let me know about her travel itinerary. She was about to take off and had a connecting flight before her final destination.
Me: Thanks for telling me. I appreciate you doing that. Hope you travel safe (and your bags too) and I hope you're feeling better than you were the other day.
W: I hope so too. I'm ok. Just taking my time.
Me: Take all the time you need.
She messaged me when she took off, landed at her connection and then again at her final destination.
Me: Glad to hear that. Doing well I hope. W: I'm ok. Thanks.
And here's where I may have regressed and gone too "melty man." . . .
That's funny, cuz I thought the part you already WROTE there was the part where you'd gone too "melty man."
Sorry, but I don't think yer gettin' it so far, mgm. Maybe someone else can try to explain it better, but your wife needs to see some AUTHENTICITY from you, some "Middle ground" between her perceived bad-marital-you and this new "Nice Passive Guy" that she's suddenly seeing.