W messaged me at 1:30am to let me know about her travel itinerary. She was about to take off and had a connecting flight before her final destination.
Me: Thanks for telling me. I appreciate you doing that. Hope you travel safe (and your bags too) and I hope you're feeling better than you were the other day.
W: I hope so too. I'm ok. Just taking my time.
Me: Take all the time you need.
She messaged me when she took off, landed at her connection and then again at her final destination.
Me: Glad to hear that. Doing well I hope. W: I'm ok. Thanks.
And here's where I may have regressed and gone too "melty man."
Me: There are a couple of bills that came that I am going to try to research for you. Maybe Monday we can go over them but I just wanted you to know I'll help you make sure things are in order. Just want you to be able to focus on your meet. I also want you to know that I appreciate you W. I read this this morning and thought of you. Believe in yourself b/c He is in you and working in you and for you. I hope I haven't disrupted your day and hopefully your bags made it safely. I pray you have a great day. #BeEncouraged Philippians 2:13 For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.
I mentioned the bills thing because she gets very stressed about them since she is not home. I used to control and take care of everything but with her closing the accounts, I don't have the access to the funds that I used to. She read my message and never responded. Could be because she had just landed and is getting her bags and stuff. Could be because I overwhelmed her. Feel kind of like I took a step back in a sense but I was trying to address some of her concerns and give her a little comfort...maybe I just laid it on too thick...or maybe I'm completely over analyzing. I'm not sure.
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012