DG, I viewed moving myself on as another step in this journey. I cannot define the point at which it happened. One day I simply realized I was no longer waiting for her to find her way out of the fog. The separation and lack of contact have helped me a lot.
In a way I have become the WAS and she is the LBS. No pursuit though. Good thing too as it would feed my ego and probably drag me back.
I still hope a little when it’s quiet, but I am not worrying about it or waiting idly.
You’ll get there.
I backslide and I may again, but each time I found my feet and pressed on a little stronger than before. You will also.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill