Hey Bea, yeah, my xh is as funny as a needle in your eye - LOL!

I think you and your son are handling it perfectly.

I do agree with Mach and Seeking that they really have no concept of time.

They lost years and years sometimes. It is all part of the crisis.

He could be attempting to reconnect in some way. Continue to be the wonderful woman you are.

Do what feels comfortable to you.