Mach and SA - Thanks for your comments. I do not know what is going on. I am pretty detached, in that I like my life, and I truly think my xh has been and still mostly crazy, and I am better off without him the way he has been this past 6 years, sadly.

I think I am just watching the show. He has reached out to his children more in the last few months, but they still find him very very strange.

My son also feels that it is as if he is still 18, instead of nearly 25.