I don't know...maybe being "just good friends" is what this is all about. Having the strength to be "just good friends" regardless of how this ends, and by having that strength, saving (hopefully) the marriage.
H: 41 W: 35 M: 9 years T: 10 years S: 9 D: 7 ILYBINILWY & "I want a divorce": 6/22/2011 Piecing: 10/2011 Still going strong as of 4/2013