Another thing she has said from the start and during counselling, that its a bad sign and reflection on our relationship that if after 3 years of marriage we are already at this point. So its better to cut our losses and move on whilst we are both young to find other people. Even our marriage counsellor said that's not right, and its no reflection on us, it just means we have hit a bump in the road and we would get through it. Guess it just comes down to the fact that she is no longer in love with me or the idea of being married to me and she feels she has 'given' to much to the relationship and can't give anymore. I always felt this was such a rubbish excuse, if she wanted to be married she would have fought for it.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
