Wife no longer in love with me

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Time is a gift for me or a gift in order to save the marriage??

My lawyer got another letter from her lawyer today stating that its been a month since the initial letter and they have not heard anything from us and are keen to begin discussions on property settlement. I am in no state mentally or emotionally to even think about this, so my lawyer has just said we will delay and delay. Does anyone think this is the right move, or will it anger her even more??
It all just seems too real and too rushed for me to even consider it. Plus, she came into the marriage with nothing. I contributed nearly everything and bought our house etc.