Sunshine, I don't think you are a Golden Retriever--I am one and I LOVE my alone time.

If you are a talker it sounds like you are a lion or an otter.

Are you SUPER outgoing? In sales? or real estate? (otters)

Are you very strong in personality? impatient? (hmm...)

And if you are an otter, you have an almost limitless amount of energy to find another guy.lol.

(those otters are somethin' else!!!)

And beaver guys love you--and that is good--because an otter will balance a beaver out.

If you are a lion, you need a golden and this guy sounds like a beaver--he is REALLY needing his alone time--or you have completely worn him out.

You need to back off of him--get the books suggested above. They will help you to understand him.

Beavers I think do not make the best lovers (sorry--but...well..they are tedious and fussy and organized and ML is usually NOT THAT!!)

A spiritual gifts book would be good for you too--you'll see why certain personalities just clash.