Why are you allowing her to dictate how you live your life?
It really doesnt matter what you say or dont say to her because she is in her own little lalaland.
I am more concerned about you. You cannot continue to live every day afraid of saying the wrong thing to her. That's no way to live. So you might get critized. And?????
You keep allowing her to pull you in and keep you on a string. Really just how many last last chances have you had? It's crazy.
Listen, just be you. If you want to say thanks. Say it. If you dont want to answer, dont.
If it were me, I'd text, 6 is fine. If she doesnt like it, too bad.
Tad, you are never going to move forward if you continue to allow her all this power over you.
Nothing you say or dont say is going to change this.
But becoming who you want to be, might.
Come on now, get out of her head, man.
LIVE YOUR LIFE. She might come back, she might not. Either way, you get to figure out who you are, what you want. If she does come back, you'll be ahead of the game, if she doesnt, you'll be ahead of the game, Capiche?