I guess the question is this then, "is what gets severed off something we cannot do without? Or is it like a cancer and needs to be gone?"
Really, it matters not. We are headed in regardless. I don't feel bad about that. That seems strange to me. I feel at peace. Not happy she's gone or what's happened to the kids, but at peace. Calm. If a little on the overwhelmed side....
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."