DG - to be honest, I don't really feel ready for it either and it absolutely WOULD be to try to get over my H. I know thats not fair, but I am having a bad day, so I'm probably not thinking clearly. If i knew my H was dating, I'm sure I would have a heart attack. Nobody is asking me out though either lol.. so its easy to 'think' I could do it. I guess these days I just think it would be nice for someone to talk to - about anything BUT my marriage - for someone to listen to me and look at me like they are interested in what Im saying, to see if i really truly could ever have feelings for someone else. I've also been separated for over 9 months now, and things were pretty bad for several months before that. So I've been feeling so alone for so long now (even though H does things that would probably give others hope - I know my H well, and sometimes I'm sure he is just trying to save face)... I don't know. I know I won't date, bc quite frankly, I have no time, and am too lazy, but its nice to dream about some fantasy guy who would treat me well. Telling myself that there IS someone out there for me is kinda what keeps me going. I figure if H and I work out - then great! if not then hopefully I will fall in love again someday with someone who I am more compatible with... Gosh, there are so many times I wish PM'ng worked on this site - as DG, I have the urge to PM you SO often - our situations are so similar, its scary.
