DD I've been here for a while. I don't post often because I usually find most situations involve other people. Mine never did. But I know exactly how you're feeling.

"Some days I feel like I'm just being stubborn and prolonging the inevitable, but I still find it all so wrong.....occasional glimpses of the man he used to be make it harder.....but most of the time he is still someone I do not know. Makes it more curious that I still love HIM when he is not who he used to be."

I soooo get this. It really does just feel so wrong. And maybe I am prolonging the inevitable also. But he has not actually come out and asked for a divorce. I won't be the one to do it.


Me50 H54
S18, SS28, SD30
M20yrs, Together 22 minus 2
Separated 8/06/08