Doggreensector, how did you then get your wife to get along with you now? My problem is that she doesn't want any contact, as its too hard on both of us she feels. As we both just cry together, so she would rather block it out and ignore it and let lawyers deal with it. I saw her 10 days ago, before I found this site and spoke to a DB coach. She was leaving for a trip to the States, so I gave her a card expressing my love for her. Which I know now, was probably the wrong thing to do. When she gets back next week, I don't expect any contact from her, so I'm not sure how I can even demonstrate that I am making the changes required if I don't get a chance to show them.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
