What do you mean its not a problem right now?
I have stopped chasing her and talking to her, we have hardly had any contact in the last few weeks since I got the initial lawyer letter. The last contact we had was 10 days ago and that was before I started DB, we had breakfast before she left for the States and I gave her a card expressing my feelings. I know now, that was probably a wrong move.
I guess I just don't know how I can demonstrate that I am making changes if there is no contact???


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011