Tad, you dont need to think about the facebook thing. It's not good for you and it's not good for your relationship.

You need to be proactive here. You need to start doing what you need to do to detach.

Let me ask you this. Why didnt you send the stuff you said you would?

You want to become the person you were meant to be. Always for you. But in the dbing sense, you want your w to see a new Tad, a different Tad.

So, send the stuff because you said you would. Not sending it is gonna piss her off.

But more importantly, not sending it is not going to change anything.

Lastly, who cares what you sounded like to her? Not you because you are detached, right?

Well, not quite but you get my point.

Now, who is it you want to be?

If it is a strong, capable, man of honor, then, be that person every day.

Because when you are, it will not matter to you if you sounded like Mickey Mouse to her.

Tad, it's time to stop making excuses, stop worrying about every encounter you have with her and live YOUR life.

Live it without regard to what she is thinking or feeling.
Live it as the man you want to be.
Live it because life is short.

LIVE IT! or it will live you.