As you two don't speak directly but instead sort of "dance" around the issues with head games it sounds in your last couple posts that she "in CL Speak" is giving you fair warning that her patients is wearing thin and she is going to to pursue a sexual relationship with someone else again if you dont.
I'm referring to the cuddle comment and this humiliating doozy-
"My W and I had dinner with our dance teachers. During the meal, we were talking about couples being expessive with one another. My W stated that she doesn't feel anything special when dancing with me (referring to th physical connection). I was embarrassed, and didn't comment on it."
