Originally Posted By: Light at
Now my question is with the relation of MLC to unresolved childhood/past issues does anyone have any direct experience of dealing with both related issues, if the abuse issue is addressed as best it can be, will that help the MLC. I know that the MLC’er needs to go on the journey to resolve issues and that the LBS cannot speed up the process, but would the above help ?

Maybe I am ‘grasping at straws’ but word from the wise would be most helpful.

Think of it more this way if she experienced a childhood issue at age 14, she may need to go back to that time to finish growing up from age 14, so maybe by the time she is 18 or 21 she will be an adult. So you might have to wait 4-7 years.

Sorry but their are no quick solutions here or magic buttons to press.
A therapist may help her or may make it worse. See if she sticks with it. Most don't.


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