Originally Posted By: Lonely Room

What puzzled me most was the kind of messages she sent me, happy, funny, as if she was trying to pick-up a conversation or initiating something. Specially yesterday's message.

I still don't understand what goes on her head...


Again, I don't think that you are understanding what it is that you are doing to yourself.......

You are reading into her messages what she is "feeling".....

How can you possibly assertain that she was happy or funny???

or that she was trying to start a conversation???

Your communication with her should be short and sweet......


Hey W, How are you? Would you like to meet me for coffee or lunch at ___(place)____ on this _____(day)____ at this ____time____?


Short and sweet.

If she asks why, then say that you thought that she might like it.

again short and sweet.

she will say Yes or NO.

I would not carry on any other conversation with her via text or email other than strictly information purposes.


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