H picked up kids on Friday for the weekend to leave town to see extended family. He stayed in the foyer while the kids did a last minute check of things they needed.
He complimented me and told me I looked good. I kept pretty quiet and generated a neutral demeanor. I thanked him for the compliment.
The Wednesday earlier on visitation pick up he had brought and was lending me a book from a series he and I both enjoy. He picked up the latest installment, and he asked me if I had read it yet. I told him just the first three chapters. (Which is unusual for me...I devour books.)
I gave him some documents sent to me by mistake, and he asked if he could leave them with me until he dropped off the kids. I said no problem (he forgot them at drop off anyway, LOL)
I had a quiet weekend, read and meditated and got some sun.
He dropped off the kids and again complimented me saying, " You look good." ( Who is he fooling, I looked HAWT!) and I thanked him again. He didn't stick around, and left quickly after saying goodbye to the kids.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.