BM,
your W has been constantly "testing" you to lead.
She is looking for a man to lead the family, make decision and follow through with them.

She keep s droping hints. start finetuing your listening skills.
eg.
your W: The Anderson's went away on a cruise last month.
This siple fact is waaaayyyy more than her saying they went on a vacayion.
It's a hint that SHE wants to go on a vaction.

Quote:
The thing to perhaps think about, how will this purchase affect you if you D?

Is a major purchase a good idea while this is still undecided?

I agree with this.
Why would you want to increase debt if your are getting a D?
Finances should be separate moving forward.

Lead.

Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."