DG, I have been in limbo also for a year now. As they say, it gets better, you get used to it, and start concentratng more on yourself and not on him. I still have the urge to stir the pot every now and then but then it just makes it worse, so I hold back. I know where I am anyways with H, and if he feels stuck, so do I!
I will not file the D, and he says he won't, so I guess we will just see where it takes us. I can't imagine limbo forever, so I am sure something's got to give someday.
In the meantime, I just enjoy the time together, coz with our D12, we do a lot of fanily stuff together anyways.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go