I'd agree, wawinla; similar situations, similar reversals from W, similar things said by them, similar apparent attempt to escape from reality.
Just got my "Verified Response to Petitioner's Petition for Dissolution of Marriage" today and have to go get my notarized signature on it. Hard to tell what I feel about it. I either want her back AND HEALTHY or I want this completely over so I can move on.
What's really frustrating right now is that despite her degrees, she is earning the best salary of her life... for leaving me. And I'm paying it in return for... what? Paying her apartment so she can live away from me, paying for her car so that she can take vacations to her sister on my dime, paying for her phone so she can send texts to the OM mentioned in her journal? I've paid already. I'm tired of it.