Kaffe, thanks for checking in also, greatly appreciated
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
At the other two points, 1 and 2...
It irks me that those type of comments from the WAS... are lies... in the sense that, while they might believe on the surface they "don't know" and say things that seem open ended... AFAIC, they DO know... they just don't want to say the answer... they just don't want to drop the hammer...
Completely agree
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Because in their minds... deep in their hearts... they don't like what is going on... what they are doing... and they're doing their best to do and believe that they aren't some emotional monster...
That has really resonated with me, and it has just clicked...
When D14 found W crying at 5am one morning D14 asked what the matter was, W replied "everything, everyone is making me out to be the bad guy"
Now W has said she has been thinking, and yep, thinking of the negatives about me and sharing it with others to try and make her look better in justifying what she has done
Another thing I have just remembered, W said it Pi**sed her off that her oldest friend (remember the one she hasnt spoken to for over two months!!!) had been posting on my FB posts and that I was posting on hers, WTH
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Yes... expect the worst, hope for the best, and keep moving forward...
Thanks, that is my cunning plan.........
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
