Screw unfriending ... block her a$$. Then she can't see you and you can't see her. End of story.
Hey PEI,
I will disagree here......
I think that sends a message that Tad doesn't neccessarily wants to send, which would be......
"I don't want to be friends with you"
That is not what Tad wants.....
He wants his W back.
I think that FB causes much pain and confusion all the way around, when this happens.
IMO, WAY TOO much emphasis is put on FB and what people post or don't post.
FB also seems to be the defacto barometer of our relationships.
Is it not ironic that FB was born out of a relationship ending????? (If you saw "The Social Network" )
I mean the last scene in the movie has Mark Zuckerberg sitting "alone" in front of the computer hitting refresh on his screen to see if his "ex-girlfriend" had replyed to his message or post or whatever........
I read thread after thread here were people interpret what their spouse is feeling by what is posted on FB. I think FB is more about what "you want other people to think your feeling rather than your actual feelings".
Facebook for Tad is just another way for his W to draw him into her storm.....whether they are "friends" or not, whether he "blocks" her or not.
Maybe at some point in the future he could reopen his account but TAD would be best served by closing the account, until then it is a distraction that keeps him from focusing on TAD.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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