More than the proceedings Cam, but yes... through the proceedings... it is likely she will take many opportunities to continue to point out her version of the truth of your sitch...
What that means is, you will actually benefit greatly from inner growth and strength so that the best outcome is possible...
That's why the work we do here, through the DB practices and introspection and GAL and 180s... THAT is what makes this work so valuable... and we can take our better selves and create relationships that we never knew were even possible... with everyone we have an R with...