Should I contact her?

[MHL]

Hey Lonely,

This is exactly what I was talking about with the electronic communication......

This was 2 hours ago and she didn't reply yet.

I don't know what to think about this,

You will obsess about the littlelest communication and it will get you off track....

What did she mean??

Why did she not reply??

Did she interpret what I said the wrong way???

It is all crap and you will drive yourself crazy and YOU WILL push her away.

Texting and emailing are done when it is not convenient to talk on the phone or in person.

All too often we use texting and email as a substitute for a conversation.

Texting and email and for that matter Facebook are just a way to communication information.......not feelings.

That is done on the phone or in person.......I prefer "in person"

I bet when you responded to her text you did so within seconds of receiving her text......right???

What message does that send her???

Remember you are a busy person..........don't respond so quickly and let her send the last communication whenever possible.

You are looking for results from a couple of texts.......this is going to take a lot longer than that.

Patience is the key here........I would lay off for a couple of weeks.......

If you do not hear from her do not contact her.

I think that this whole exchange did not go well........you need to back off.

The whole thing about "needing to say some things and you need to hear some things".......

You might as well have gone over to her house and just said that you want to talk about getting back together.......that is what I got from that...........

I bet she did too.

You were going to initiate contact to maybe go for coffee or something not fullfill some "need" you have.

See the difference?

You have to keep it light, short and sweet......

and you will have to do that for a long time before you would talk about anything else.

Hope this helps.

Cheers