Just checking in on you. I think that was really brave of you to text him. I know how frustrating life in limbo land can be I am really close to doing the same thing with my H. It is hard to live your life not really knowing where you are and you can't do it forever. You have every right to ask him what he is thinking but you just have to be ready for the answer. We are all here for you.
In regards to people in your life being supportive. They might not be but you know what it is YOUR life. You need to do what makes you happy and if you guys do work things out you are a different person now so your relationship will be different that it was. I know with me I was guilty of only talking about the bad things with H. I need to remember to share the good things too.
