YOU make that something great happen. YOU give to yourself what you need. YOU validate, self-soothe and love yourself like no one else can.
I don't think you're in any kind of place to even think about dating. Be selfish and take this time for you. It's okay to grieve and if you don't now it will come up in a future relationship.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
