Not really sure I have any thing to say, just needed to put something down at the moment. Things do not seem too bad, some days better than others, as I said before she has not been directly unpleasant toward me about my failings etc., but as I‘ve read all MLC’s vary.
With w’s latest bomb in relation to being abused as a child (14 yrs) which I have been somewhat sceptical about(not to w), due to the notion of ‘believing nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do’, but over the weekend and out of the blue w said that she is going to see a Therapist to help deal with these issues. I was pleased to hear this, for 2 reasons, firstly her claim appears to be true (if she goes) and, secondly it should help her heal.
Now my question is with the relation of MLC to unresolved childhood/past issues does anyone have any direct experience of dealing with both related issues, if the abuse issue is addressed as best it can be, will that help the MLC. I know that the MLC’er needs to go on the journey to resolve issues and that the LBS cannot speed up the process, but would the above help ?
Maybe I am ‘grasping at straws’ but word from the wise would be most helpful.
